facebookFeeling v useless and aimless at my current stage. ppl around are have side hustles/ hobbies whereas i have absolutely nth. i just work. - Seedly

Anonymous

19 Nov 2023

Adulting

Feeling v useless and aimless at my current stage. ppl around are have side hustles/ hobbies whereas i have absolutely nth. i just work.

Im in my 30s and everyone around seems to have sth gg on in their life etc good career, side business. unlike them, i just seem to be floating in life aimless with no direction no goal no hobby, what should i do? feeling quite miserable with myself...

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Be happy,

as long as

  • You have money to buy your food.
  • You have home
  • Prepare your future (retirement), such as invest little by little from your salary.

You don't have to worry with the other.

However, if you want to try other things, I would suggest that you play a game that makes you happy. Be aware that you must not pay extravagant amounts of money for it. Games like gacha, or gambling will make you pay a lot of money.

Kent Toh

23 Nov 2023

Consultant at Sprinklr

You looking for encouragement?

Nope.. Sadly, as easy as this feeling of self-pity comes, it doesn’t help us in any way.

Get on with your life. Do something.

What thing? Anything.

You control your life, your destiny.

You can't change fate, but you can change your attitude.

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So are you ok with it? If ok, then no issue. If not, then take action.

Don't get stressed up by others. Everyone's situation is different e.g. they could have loans to repay, luxe pursuit. Nevertheless, would encourage you to work on a life goal. It could keep you grounded during down times.

Personally, I have cut away from social media such as IG and FB to avoid having a comparison mentali...

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