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Anonymous

29 Mar 2023

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Am i bad child if i don't give allowance to my parents? I have more commitments (house, reno)coming up in the near future so i need the $$ to save up for that..

On side note, i have been giving them for the past few years and even treating them but i think i may have to stop soon to save up..is this ok?

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You should talk to them instead of asking it here?

We will always have a justification for what we want to do (seeing things using our own angle and failed to see from other angles). Perhaps they already did something w the money u always gave them and have a purpose for the money you plan to give them.

Our time w our parents are limited - treasure them b4 they are gone.

Cryotosensei

02 Apr 2023

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When I became a father, I reduced my allowance from $600 to $400. I think I must still give a bit lar, especially because my father will randomly give me ang baos to spend on my kids. How are your parents' spending habits like?

No, im sure they will understand that since you have other commitments currently, you will have less money for them. as long as you still take care of them, it is all right! do not worry!

Talk to them first. do they need your allowance - if yes, then stopping may not be possible. but if no, and talking to them, they will understand.

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