Would you rather marry someone who's financially disciplined but earns less, or someone who earns a lot but spends freely?

Marriage is a joint venture. A fundamental misalignment of financial values will continuously destabilize the household.

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Both are equally dangerous

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If earning is too low, no amount of discipline and frugality can pull you out of the situation.

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High spenders, living paycheck to paycheck will not have the ability to handle financial shocks.

Disciplined one for sure. high income means nothing if it all goes out the door every month lol