Hi Seedly community, I think I need help. Im quite a perfectionist and I feel I can be quite judgemental and gets irritated by behaviors or people who are different from me.

I have this awareness and I know it is not right. However I really cant stop myself from feeling this way. I should not feel that I am superior to others but I tend to feel this way when I meet people who are not making sense or are behaving in uncultured manner. I am hoping to be more open minded and understanding towards people, and try to tell myself all the time that there are different types of people and it does not mean they are less than me if they behave differently. I dont mean to judge, but I cant help me and I am keen to seek help. Is there any books or solutions that you can share with me, on how I can instil in my mind that there are different personalities in this world and teach me to be able to accept different personalities and working style, and not be annoyed or upset by these differences. any tips that can teach me to accept and enjoy working with different people will be greatly appreciated! I dont wish to be upset and annoyed, it is doing bad to my mental health. thank you so much Seedly family.