Am i a failure if I don’t know how to drive? I have taken close to 40 lessons and spent up to 5k+, but I still can’t drive. I felt like a loser when my peers or partners can drive.

Dont put urself down

just practice more or get a better instructor

or go jb learn

there is no time or age limit to learning

I don't drive, neither do most of my family members. Sometimes it might be better because I have seen many situations with close shaves, accidents and road rage.
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otherwise change your instructor, or keep practising. One day you will pass.

It's totally understandable to feel frustrated about not driving yet, especially after investing so much time and money. Remember, everyone learns at their own pace! Just like in dreadhead parkour, persistence and practice are key. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small, and don’t compare yourself to others. You're on your unique journey, and that's perfectly okay!

Did you learn from a school or from private?

Can't drive as in cannot pass the test?

Or there is some other component or barrier?

Single out the factors and we can tackle on it specifically.

Not a loser, you just have to figure out the problem.