Anonymous
I'm currently working in Healthcare and I was planning to quit before COVID-19 struck. However, now we're in a recession and I guess it's not a good time to quit with no job lined up. I dislike my boss and she seems to have gotten worse since the recession started. Is there any coping mechanism for reducing job misery? Or should I try to find a new job?
9
Discussion (9)
Learn how to style your text
Desmond
07 Apr 2020
Peak Performance Coach at [email protected]
Reply
Save
Hey, hope you're doing find!
Totally understand what it feels like to have a unreasonal boss especially when you try to be nice but they take it for grated and are extremely toxic. And because of that looking for ways to manage it, if not change.
First of all, I just want to thank you for serving as us in the healthcare sector. I know it might already feel like a warzone on a normal daily basis. And with resources running low, things are getting more tensed.
Well, finding different jobs may not be the solution, because the bottom line is the company's culture and the environment that you want to be looking for and priorisiting. Going into another job, you might face the same problems. Unless you find one where it has a nurtuing, open and growing culture.
If not, a coping machanism that I alwayed used during one of my most trying times was when I was in amry. I just told myself that everything was a game. Every uncomfortable situation that I went through was getting "experience points" and that sooner or later I'd "level up" to a better version of myself.
So what you can consider, is learning how to take things from a different perspective and challenge yourself! One of the biggest thing you can learn right now that is transferable is communication. You can apply it to your boss, colleague, friends and family to build better relationships.
Better communication would not only help you cope with your current situation, but if used correctly, you might be able to win your boss's favour!
Google, "Never Split the Difference by Chris Voss". In first sight, you might not think this book is anyway applicable. However, if you give it a deeper thought and let it settle on your mind. It's actually a golden nugget that might be the key to your next promotion, career progession or better, getting your gf/bf to agree with you.
Once again, whether you stay or leave.
Thank you for your service.
Reply
Save
Just get a new job. Boss won't change their attitude. But do it while you are gainfully employed.
Here's something that might help: https://adriantan.com.sg/unemployment/
Reply
Save
I reckon healthcare jobs are particularly in demand now, given covid (now), and ageing population (the mid/long term). You may stand a good chance getting job offers. Hence, might be good to start applying now
Reply
Save
Jeff Yeo
02 Apr 2020
amateur Social contributor at School of social sharing
Sometimes we get stuck in a mind set that is negative and spirals downwards. Try to find ways to def...
Read 5 other comments with a Seedly account
You will also enjoy exclusive benefits and get access to members only features.
Sign up or login with an email here
Write your thoughts
Related Articles
Related Posts
Related Posts
Pick up marketable and transferrable skills - e.g. copywriting, sales and marketing, search engine optimization etc.
Start offering your service to businesses for FREE - no strings attached.
Use the testimonials to get more paid client work, either as a freelancer or as an agency. "Getting a job" is not the only route to income!