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Asked on 24 Dec 2019

What are the significant expenses ahead that I should start planning for, as a young guy who is getting married soon? Wedding, housing, car, kids, parents etc. How are you planning for retirement?

Planning for the future in terms of big-ticket purchases. Are there ways to save money/ earn rewards that I should be looking out for when I make these big-ticket purchases?

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Choon Yuan Chan
Choon Yuan Chan
Level 9. God of Wisdom
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

You name most of them already. As for the planning for retirement part, i am actively expanding my knowledge on investing so that i can improve the rate of returns on my savings by being able to invest effectively and efficiently

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Bjorn Ng
Bjorn Ng
Level 9. God of Wisdom
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

Hi there,

In terms of what comes first, wedding, house, parents, kids, car.

For me, I am planing for my wedding and house now - so I've set aside a budget for it. Of course, it depends on how much you want to spend on it, like spend more on housing than wedding etc.. Also depends on your spouse.

Kids depends on you both - but the immediate requirement would be your parents, right now it would just be monthly allowance for me. I have not set a budget aside for car and kids because it's not in the near team.

In terms of planning for retirement, the excess cash I have after setting aside above + 6 months emergency fund is used to invest in growth stocks. That way I can compound my $ better than just leaving it in the bank (already maximized).

Suggest for your wedding and housing, you can take a look to sign some credit cards for the sign up bonus. Chances are that you can earn quite a bit of bonus miles!

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curious_moo
Level 4. Prodigy
Answered on 02 Jan 2020

Some tips based on experience here.

1) Try not to spend too much on the ring (its really not as important as we think only me and my spouse views)

2) Try to avoid paying for additional photos beyond your wedding studio package (we hardly look at the album a couple years into marriage)

3) Try to get a house near to your parents/in-laws to enjoy the housing grant (we dont get to enjoy these grant when we got our house in 2013 at the peak!)

4) Try to fixed a renovation budget and stick to it (a simple contemporary style can be cheap and superd looking at the same time)

5) Try to compare and get your electronics all from the same place to get the best deal (negotiate when required, they give good discounts or vouchers)

6) Try to get a car only when you need it (i.e. when you are going to have a child and when it really becomes a need rather than a want)

7) Try to opt for cheaper baby delivery venues (we did thompson and finding that NUH or KK is actually equaly great)

8) I can go on forever on this but i think this is great for now. GL.

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Paridhi Jhunjhunwala
Paridhi Jhunjhunwala, Associate at Kristal.AI
Level 7. Grand Master
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

Hi!

I think a good approach to go about planning for big-ticket expenses is to have a timeline for all of them along with tentative amounts fixed for each. This will allow you to have clarity on the cash flows that you will require at points of time in the future to fulfil the purchases. Now, consider each of these to be a separate financial goal and go about investing in a manner that you have enough saved up by the time the event arises.

Retirement is not really a one-time expense and so it cannot have a fixed date on the timeline. However, the age that you plan to retire at can be taken as a starting point to arrive at a corpus value that you will require to sustain post-retirement. Based on these financial goals and your risk appetite, you can create a portfolio. You can make use of a robo-advisor to help you arrive at the optimal portfolio.

I work at Kristal.AI, and it's my passion to evaluate various upcoming investment opportunities.

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Firstly, we need to have a complete understanding on our cashflow. Through this process, we will understand our earning ability and spending habit. Here is a guide to help you: https://www.blog.pzl.sg/understanding-your-personal-cash-flow/

Next, create a merticulous planning that crafts out everything that is going to happen next in your life. Thereafter, list down all the associated expenses that you need in order to achieve the goal, e.g. $150k for family related (e.g. 10% downpayment for house, $50k renovation, $30k wedding)

Once this is completed with the associated timeline, work backwards to find out the amount of money you need today in order to achieve each goal. Then, create a budget that is capable of helping you to plan for the future. The best way to do this is via automation and this is how I do mine: https://www.blog.pzl.sg/how-to-create-a-monthly-budget/

With this completed, you will have a clear understanding of your finances and your future. If you are open to understanding further on how I conduct comprehensive financial planning for my client, drop me a coffee invite: https://www.work.pzl.sg/#coffee

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Isabel Wong
Isabel Wong
Level 6. Master
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

I think you have listed the main expenses. For me personally I'm only aiming for a house and trying to save and grow my wealth as much as I can.

There are too many variables when planning for retirement currently so just have a rough goal and work towards it.

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Cedric Jamie Soh
Cedric Jamie Soh, Director at Seniorcare.com.sg
Level 9. God of Wisdom
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

I actually only started saving for my retirement after WEDDING.

Its like the footage for UP the movie.

As you save for the long term goal, something in the short term will pops up and you needs to "break the saving bank" for it.

Thats part and parcel of life.

Key is managing the spending at this various life milestone if you want to keep enough for the future.

For example, wedding don't have to be super expensive.

House don't have to be super big.

Car.... you can drive a japanese car or maybe take the public transport?

The more you spend on milestones, the less you have to invest.

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patty
Level 3. Wonderkid
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

Mostly will be housing, kids and parents for the future

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Vicki Chng
Level 6. Master
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

I think mainly house and wedding! That 2 itself will take up a lot of money le. Once the wedding is over and you recouped some, can take it and save for retirement!

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Hwee Kian
Hwee Kian
Level 7. Grand Master
Answered on 24 Dec 2019

First of all, I think we have to consider our income if we can manage the cashflow for the significant expenses that you highlighted. So it's important to plan the timeline, whether you're comfortable that all will come around the same time, say happen within 2 year timeframe.

It's very hard to have a planned amount of how much you need, because circumstances are all different, i.e. how lavish one's wedding is, how big a flat you want, if you need a car etc. So it's more ideal to plan based on combined savings between you and your spouse, then decide how much is adequate as spending.

Bear in mind, don't overspend or over leverage especially on wedding such as paying more for additional photos/photo album. Cut down drastically on the wants and you'll do fine. ​​​

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