I guess it's important that your potential partner is on the same page as you on the budgeting. We have agreed that to go for a lower end hotel for our wedding which come up to about 80 per pax. We did our own wedding video and sourced for a cheap wedding package. I think we made quite a profit which funded our honeymoon. We furnished our entire home with Taobao excluding aircon, fridge and television. I think we spent about 36k plus all in. Don't rush and it's important to do your research.