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Qingling Wu

A wandering fresh diploma graduate.

Qingling Wu

Digital Marketing at Temasek Polytechnic

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A wandering fresh diploma graduate.

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Digital Marketing at Temasek Polytechnic

Qingling Wu

Digital Marketing at Temasek Polytechnic

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Family

Lifestyle

My girlfriend's parents constantly makes me pay for meals when we eat together. They know that I'm well to do, and I know they are not. Am I just being petty?
Qingling Wu
Qingling Wu, Digital Marketing at Temasek Polytechnic
Level 3. Wonderkid
Answered on 22 May 2019
First of all, no you are far from petty. It seems like your kindness and background has been taken for granted. Even though you are well to do, they should be more understanding that you also have things to pay for (daily expenses, mortgage etc). Moreover, I believe you will be more willing to pay for them if they are the ones who fight to foot the bill. But anyhoo in this case, your gf is the problem and not her parents. She should be the one telling her parents about this, and if she doesn't see a problem, then that is a problem.
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Lifestyle

I come from a relatively well to do family, and recently I've been getting to know this girl who is not well-to-do, we may end up together. How do I know she's not in this for the money?
Qingling Wu
Qingling Wu, Digital Marketing at Temasek Polytechnic
Level 3. Wonderkid
Answered on 22 May 2019
I think I know how you feel, somehow. IMO I think what's important is whether or not she's willing to work hard and if she has dreams she wants to pursue. If it's neither of the above/ she's lazy, obviously she'll be more dependent on your wealth as she has no sort of her own. But if she is a girl with big dreams and is hardworking, kind and selfless, than I think you are thinking too much. :)
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