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Jeff Yeo
21 Apr 2019
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You’re the average of all the people who surround you. Take a look around and make sure you’re in the right surroundings.
But of course its not so simple to distance yourself from a co-worker, especially if the both of you are tasked with working on a project together.
Ultimately, you should not let the negativity affect you. True, it is easier said than done. Here are some ways that you can consider to deal with it:
1. SET BOUNDARIES
Only engage this co-worker only when you need to (ie. discussing work), and distance yourself when this co-worker is looking to chit-chat (read: massively complaining and being negative about work)
2. BE UPFRONT
However, if you do indeed care for this co-worker as a friend, you could be honest with him/her and talk about how the complaining and negativity is not only bad for himself/herself, but also to his peers. You never know, you could be the positive force and turn things around. It probably will take some time though.
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Hi there, waa I can feel you being stressed all the way from where I am hahaha but okay hope the ans...
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Have a talk with him on his unhappiness at the work place maybe you will inspire him to remove this negative mindset