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Is having a LDR always so financially straining? My boyfriend is from Germany, and we can only meet 2-3 times a year. Is it worth keeping the relationship?
The expense to meet up is just so high. When we send gifts for each other's birthdays. We talk online, but because of the time difference, we don't have much of a common time. We aren't sure about the relationship's future, and sometimes I feel like I'm spending too much on this.
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Nur Fadhilah
03 Mar 2023
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Was in a LDR also, but i realised its v difficult to sustain esp if it doesnt make sense for either one to move
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No such thing as a permanent LDR. If you dont see distance coming closer eventually, not worth conti...
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If it was me, I would leave the relationship. I'll make a stance at the beginning that a relationship long term investment - so it's either I move over or my partner comes over.
Thankfully, I met my husband briefly 3 days) during a work trip to Dubai. We kept in touch for 2 months, by then feelings grew from daily conversations - so he make the call, packed his bags, left his country and move to SG with two big duffel bags.
It was a struggle, as I had to finance him for 3 years while he tried getting jobs with a LTVP and now, he's gotten his PR.
Hitting our 6th year anniversary with 3 kids, we both knew we were each others' best investments.