facebookEven tho my bf tried to change, I still think he’s irresponsible & immature, shld I continue dating him? I’m asking bcos I take the r/s v seriously & have thoughts of setting down w him in the future. - Seedly

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Anonymous

04 Jun 2021

Property

Even tho my bf tried to change, I still think he’s irresponsible & immature, shld I continue dating him? I’m asking bcos I take the r/s v seriously & have thoughts of setting down w him in the future.

His cons: when he was young he squander his $/don’t have much savings, can be quite rude to his parents at times. He have bad habits like smoking & gambling even tho he kinda stop for now(thanks to covid?) We talked many times & he knows I have these concerns, he did make a change & is working hard at his job now. However, I feel the irresponsible and maturity part of him didn’t really change, eg. he once refused responsibility for sth he ought to bear, and “attacked” me when I said to break up.

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Victor

04 Jun 2021

Financial Service Consultant at AIA

If you have this feeling, it is very unlikely to last long unless your other half really change for the good

Huang Yixuan

04 Jun 2021

Person at Seedly Community

If he is stopping thanks to covid, and these are things that is a no no for you, then you will only know once covid has ended.

But in general though you said that you think "he's irresponsible and immature", if you already think this of him, then I don't think you find him suitable at all? What are some of his pros?

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Just being realistic

  • Gambling is definately NO GO
  • "attacked" verbally? When angry people spe...

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