Hi anon, I'm a guy, but I'm not sure you should. It's not easy to get a proper fit on a bridal dress, and I would think that if you have to make alterations after you get the gown shipped over, this will massively delay the process as either you have to find a seamtress, or ship it back. Better to save a little more and get a proper gown from one of the shops here where you may get a wider selection, face to face consultation, unlimited fittings, but most importantly, proper measurements and alternations. If you need more details such as a referal package to help save costs, feel free to reply to this post. My own package was reasonably cheap by most standards, I felt. Lastly, I can recommend that you join the closed FB group for SG brides. It's ladies only, but you can post more questions there and all the BTB and graduated Brides will gladly answer you.